Sunday, March 31, 2013

Happy Easter!

Just like Justin's birthday, Easter was kind of low-key this year with Alaina's surgery.  We went to church to the Easter Egg Hunt, but we missed the actual hunt so some great friends shared some of their eggs and even set up a little hunt just for the boys.  Alaina didn't really care.  :)  The boys had fun so that's all that really matters.
 
 


 
Alaina wasn't sure about the Easter bunny, but she didn't cry!  Justin wouldn't let go of Nana's hand.
 
 
Easter Sunday we got up early and and went to sunrise service.  I actually had to wake up the boys to go.  (Alaina was awake of course.)  She and I went to the kitchen and helped prepare breakfast for everyone after the service.  It was a lot of fun and everyone enjoyed the morning.  The church has the most beautiful field that makes for gorgeous sunrises.  Here's the gang dressed for Easter:

 
We went to dinner at Randy's parents house for supper.  (It was kind of late so Alaina went in her PJs.)  The Easter bunny came to their house and everyone got some chocolate.   The boys got Star Wars Stormtrooper bunnies and Alaina got a regular girly bunny.  She started chewing on it through the plastic.  I figured it didn't really matter until I noticed that she had managed to gnaw through the plastic to get to the chocolate. 

 
 
So I took it away.  She wasn't happy.
 

So I gave it back to her.



 She's a girl and it was chocolate.  I guess I shouldn't be surprised.
 
Happy Easter!

Happy Birthday Justin!

Hip, Hip Hooray! Someone in our house just turned five!
 
Can you guess who?
 

I cannot believe that five years have passed, but it's true.  Justin is a whole hand old!  And he can even say "five".  It's adorable, kind of like he is.  Justin's birthday party was right after Alaina's surgery so it was kind of low-key.  He didn't even care!  He just wanted "Veggie Tales" and legos.  Veggie Tales are still his favorite thing, and with Travis' fascination with legos, Justin needed some of his own.
 
I love how he reads his cards.  He says "Me read" and opens it up.  Of course they all say "Happy Birthday Justin"!



He got a Lego (Duplo) fire station, which pleased him to no end!  The best part of Legos is crashing them down so he needed his own to crash.  Travis is not a crashing kind of guy...


Since Justin can't have regular cake, and he LOVES ice cream, we just bought ice cream and dumped it upside down on a plate and frosted it with the new cool whip frosting.  A few sprinkles and a candle and voila - instant birthday cake!  It was a big hit with everyone. 





So we now have a five-year old.  He still is making huge strides in therapy.  He has learned to ride a tricycle and he can jump and walk on his tiptoes.  He can swing on a regular swing without fear (my fear!) of falling off.  He can run really well, with arms pumping and knees up.  He is learning his letters (to write them too).  He is not very good with this yet, but he's just starting.  He is working on his hand strength and stamina so his therapist sets the timer and he has to color for five minutes without saying he is done.  It's tough (we do it at home too) because he has no ability to focus except when it comes to TV.  He is also working on buttoning buttons, which he can do on a shirt in front of him but not on himself.  Good thing boys wear mostly t-shirts! 

His speech is what is the most remarkable.  Justin's OT who moved to Austin came back to visit and she was amazed at how much progress he has made in the 8 months she has been gone.  I think his learning seems to progress in a spiral:  We don't understand him for a while and then there is a huge breakthrough and we understand most of what he says and then he wants to say more and we don't understand again and then he gets clearer and we understand again and then the cycle starts again with his desire to say more increasing.  It kind of started with him only talking and referring to things in his visual sight and current experience.  Then he talked about things that happened in the past and we struggled with understanding because we couldn't just guess things that were right there in the room.  Once we understood is was about something that happened earlier in the day we could train our ear to listen for those words.  Now he has gotten abstract and refers to things he would like to do or see.  It's kind of fun but it's a lot more guessing for a while.  He sure can tell a good story!  And he started learning mostly nouns, and then he moved on to verbs and some adjectives.   Now he is on to adverbs and prepositions.  It's amazing to hear such long sentences come out of his mouth!  He's up to four and even five words sometimes!

Justin certainly has a great sense of humor.  He can tease and joke and I cannot help but laugh.  He so wants to tell knock knock jokes (like Travis) but they are completely nonsensical (um, kind of like Travis...)  He likes to sing songs out of the blue and he gets most of the words so I can understand enough to figure out what he's singing.  We are learning "Holy, Holy, Holy" in school and he can get that part perfectly.  But forget about the cherubim and seraphims for sure!

He adores his "Pop" and constantly asks for stories.  Pop starts every story with "Once upon a time there was a boy named, oh, what was his name?"  And Justin immediately pipes up, "Justin!"  "Oh, yes, that's what it was, Justin..."  It is precious seeing how much they love each other.

His sleep has improved.  Since I put him back in diapers for the night he sleeps most of the night without waking up.  Good for mommy's sleep.  He doesn't wake up dry but he tells me "not much, lil' " is how much he peed in his diaper.  If it's a little or a lot, does it really matter?  So that's still a work in progress.  Last night I slept for 5 and a half whole hours straight!  Whoo hoo!  He does seem to be more well-rested so that's a huge improvement.  I am sure we are due for another sleep study soon, but I am putting it off as long as possible!
 
So that's our boy:  Sweet, funny, crazy, silly, precious, and cuddly.  All wrapped up in one adorable package called Justin!

Friday, March 29, 2013

Surgery

Alaina had her 9 month check up this month and the doctor found that she had a hernia.  We suspected it so we weren't surprised.  But we didn't expect it would require surgery.  I guess she didn't want to be left out being a child in our family and not having surgery!  So we had our obligatory visit with the surgeon.  (Yep, it's a hernia.  She'll need surgery.  My assistant will call you.)  And then on to surgery.  We are getting pretty good at this by now so it wasn't too bad.  The early mornings are the only tough part.  She even did well not eating so I can't complain.  Here's the happy before pictures:



And the sad afters:




I would take a dozen hernias over tonsils!  This was like a walk in the park after heart surgery and tonsils.  She ate just fine and then fell back asleep.  She reacted a little over-zealously to the morphine (the boys did too, interesting...) so she needed a little blow-by oxygen, thus the tube.  She has been recovering very nicely since then.  No ill effects from the trauma.  She has been indoctrinated into the family.  She is a full-fledged DeCarlo with the scar to prove it!

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Bluebonnets

It's bluebonnet season in Texas and we try to celebrate with pictures.  Adding children has subtracted the number of good pictures I can get with all of them in one picture, so it was a pretty hillarious venture.  Travis is extremely sensitive to sun and as it turns out, wind too, so he could NOT keep his eyes open and smile without looking pained and tortured.  Which maybe isn't all that untrue.  Hmmm...

I tried to make it a fun outing with friends, and picnic, and a park, if they could just make it though the dreaded pictures.  All I can say is, I tried.  The picnic and playing at the park were fun, if that counts for anything.  The morning was not wasted for sure.

Anyway, here's the best of the worst for your viewing pleasure!



 


 
 
And this was when I knew my picture-taking was over!
 

Monday, March 25, 2013

Silly Alaina!

Just some funny Alaina pics:
 
Gotta love bed-head!

 
She has entered the "climbing" phase...


Alaina has taken to wrestling with her brothers.


And going for a little afternoon ride.


She and Justin share a little secret.  Hmm, I wonder what they're whispering about...



She is not a baby anymore and she will soon be walking and then running before we know it.  The boys enjoy being able to be a little more rough with her and she is taking her punches and dolling them right back.  I love it!

Saturday, March 23, 2013

End of Soccer

Travis played winter soccer this year and he enjoyed the season.  It finished up the beginning of this month.  It was a little difficult for all of us at all the games because we actually got a little cold weather (you know, it being winter and all) and I didn't want Alaina out in the wind and cold.  We all looked a little funny in our blankets and cold weather gear (Northerners would definitely laugh at us!), but we enjoyed the time with friends and the chance to get outside without intense sweating!  Travis' team finished the season 4-4 and they somehow managed to get into third place!

 
 
 Levi's sister Ellie loves Justin and the two were thick as thieves every week during the games!

So after the game they distributed the medals and Travis brought his over for us to see.  He said, "I wonder what it says on the back.  Oh, I bet I know what it says, "Made in China"!"  He flipped it over and it didn't say anything at all.  That pleased him to no end and when we got home the first thing he did was run to Randy and say, "Daddy, guess what?  My medal wasn't made in China!"

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Happy Down Syndrome Day!

It's March 21 (3/21) - National Down Syndrome Day!

Here's a good article about Jerome LeJeune (credited with discovering that Down syndrome is caused by an extra copy of the 21st chromosome).